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Ensure Your Child Has Happy Memories When They Grow Up With This Advice

I think as parents the top thing we hope for is that our kid looks back at their childhood with fondness. After all, we want them to have happy memories to tell their future kids and grandkids about! Therefore, here is some advice you need to ensure your child has happy memories when they grow up!

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Go on plenty of days out together

It’s often not the things you buy your kid, but the time that you spend together that they remember. After all, a toy will only last a few years, while a day out will create memories that will last forever. Therefore, make sure you are putting your kid first by spending quality time together as a family at weekends. Days out to theme parks and the zoo will be memories your child looks back at with fondness. You can check out our previous blog for more ideas of ways you can spend the day with your child.

Limit rows with your partner

You will be surprised how much kids can remember about rows between their parents. After all, it’s scary to see two people they love arguing in front of them. And it can often dampen their memories when they look back at their childhood. Therefore, to ensure they have a happy childhood, you need to avoid rows with your partner in front of your kid. Of course, you might have little rows with your spouse; no one gets on 24/7! But try and do it away from your child to ensure they have happy memories.

Ensure they have special birthdays

As much as buying your child a great present will fill them with joy on their birthday, it’s often how they spend the day which will create a lasting memory. Therefore, make sure they have a special birthday party which they will love. You might want to arrange a family party so that they spend their birthday with their loved ones. Or you could even arrange a fun party with their friends. You could do an activity such as bowling or laser tag. And you could even contact the venue to see if they do kids birthday parties. That way, you can all enjoy the cake at the center without having to go back to yours! It will definitely leave happy memories for your child!

Record the happy times

It’s often hard for kids to remember their childhood. But if you want to remind them of the good times, you should ensure you record the happy events in their life. Take plenty of pictures and videos which you can show them when they grow up. That way, you will give their memories a boost. Some moms even start a diary which they use to record special moments as their child is growing up. Then they give this to their little one when they are fully grown up. This article has some good tips on keeping a memory journal for your child!

When was the last time you told your kid you loved them? It’s so important that you tell them and cuddle them as much as possible so that they know how much you care! That way, they will look back fondly at their childhood.

Needs Vs. Wants: The Conundrum Of Technology And Your Kids

Most homes have a computer and the internet now. A lot of you are probably pretty tech savvy. But there’s a difference between being good with tech and making sure that tech is good for your family. Here, we’ll be looking at the needs and wants of your family. How to make sure you’re using what’s best for the kids in approaching the digital world.

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The needs of the family

When it comes to a family all using devices, you’ll find they have a lot of needs. In particular, most of our devices, even our TVs, are connected to the internet. So you want to make sure you have the right device and internet package to give access to the whole family. If you find your internet connection is getting slow, it could be due to overuse. You might want to think about getting in touch with your provider to find a higher-speed deal. Or looking at routers better suited to more users from places like the Smart Future.

Browsing in the night

In the evening is when we all tend to chill and relax in front of a computer screen or the television. However, it can lead to some health risks if you’re not keeping it in check. For instance, if someone’s using a computer or a tablet, make sure they’re doing it in a well-lit room. Try to keep them from browsing an hour before bedtime, as well. Eyestrain and migraines might see a lot of pain and even glasses down the line for your family. Meanwhile, too much artificial light at night makes sleep significantly harder to find.

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How much is healthy?

Then there’s the important question of how much tech in the home is good for the family. We’re not suggesting you get rid of your kids’ video games. The science shows that an hour of it a day can actually be beneficial for them. It can even improve how they do in school. A lot more than that can have a negative effect, however. It can lead to problems with paying attention and social situations. There’s also the obvious fact that a sedentary lifestyle is good for no-one.

Making sure your tech is kid friendly

If your children are going to use it, you’re going to want to pay close attention to what they’re able to access. The internet has no filter unless you put one on it. Many internet providers have options to block sites that you wouldn’t want your kids accessing. As far as videogames and television is concerned, you should pay attention to the content of what your kids are watching and playing. Don’t assume that all video games are for kids. There’s plenty of content that’s perfectly fine for adults, but not for kids. You might get some complaints for mothering them, but it’s worth it.

You want to make sure that your home has good access, but it’s also important to make sure your family is using their tech in healthy, helpful ways. With the tips above, you should find there’s plenty to help you do that.

A Dreamy Place to Dream: Making Your Bedroom More Luxurious

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The bedroom is your own little sanctuary. A place to retreat from the world, relax and completely unwind after each long day. So if yours has seen better days or you’re unsatisfied with how it looks, it’s well worth making a change! A lovely bedroom will make you feel happy and promote feelings of relaxation. Here are some of the ways you can go about it.

Get It Spotless

Before considering anything else, getting the space clean and free of clutter is a good idea. Label three boxes ‘bin’ ‘charity shop’ and ‘friends’ and anything you no longer have a use for can go straight into these. It helps you to make decisions quicker and means you can power through with less hassle. Once the clutter is gone, give everywhere a deep clean not forgetting underneath large furniture items like the bed and wardrobe. If you’re able to remove everything out completely, that’s even better.

Repaint The Walls

Color has been shown to have a significant effect on our mood. Certain shades will help to make you feel more relaxed making them good choices for the bedroom. Go with a very light shade or a light neutral which will help to open up the space and make it feel bigger and brighter. A coat of paint can instantly make a dull and drab room feel fresh and new and gives you a blank canvas from which to build up the room.

Think About The Bed

The most important feature in the bedroom is of course the bed. Since we spend so much of our lives sleeping, it makes sense to invest here and buy something that’s comfortable and supportive. Go for the biggest size you can which still works well in the room. Queen sized beds for example are larger than a standard double if you want extra room, but won’t overpower a smaller space in the same way a king or super king would. Another important thing to get right when it comes to the bed, is the bedding. Duvets and pillows can harbour dust mites and bacteria and should be replaced every few years. If yours have seen better days, fresh new ones will make you feel extra cosy and fresh. Go for high quality cotton sheets and duvet covers which are soft on the skin.

Add Soft Furnishings

The way you can really make the bedroom look luxurious is with the use of soft furnishings. Soft, sumptuous throws draped over the bed, lots of pillows, a cosy rug on the floor and good quality curtains will all bring a richness to the room. They also bring in color and texture, decide on an accent shade or two and use these colors through your soft furnishing choices.

Finish With Decorative Accessories

Once everything else is done and dusted, you can bring in your personality to the room. This could be with unique lamps, framed photos, flowers and plants or anything else. Try not to go overboard and leave the room looking cluttered, but a few personal touches add a homeliness and will make you feel happy and at home each time you go to bed and wake up.

The Secrets To Surviving Your Kid’s First Sleepover

If your kids are about to host their very first sleepover or slumber party, they are bound to be ecstatic. You, on the other hand, might be dreading it. From a lack of sleep to dealing with noisy kids, sleepovers can be every parent’s nightmare. But hosting a sleepover can actually benefit your child in a number of ways. It can help them to develop their social skills and strengthen their relationships with friends. Sleepovers can also make your child feel more independent and confident. So while it might not be fun for you, hosting a sleepover can be a positive experience for your kids.

Thankfully, it doesn’t have to be the chaotic and stressful night you expect it to be. Here are some tips and tricks you can use to help you child host a successful sleepover and keep your sanity throughout.

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Choose the right room

Before your home is invaded by your child’s friends, you need to decide which would be the best room for them to sleep in. This is something you should decide in advance and not leave until the day of the sleepover. If there is enough space in your child’s bedroom, this could be the perfect location. But if there isn’t, consider using larger rooms such as your living room. Also, consider where you intend to be while the sleepover is occurring. Ideally, you should be somewhere that is within earshot, so you can quickly assist if there is a problem. There should also be smoke alarms in the room too for added protection.

Once you’ve chosen the right room, you should then consider how to make it more appropriate for the sleepover. There needs to be a comfortable place for your child’s guests to sit and sleep. You may need to buy air beds and sleeping bags beforehand to do this.

You could also buy kids bean bags, extra pillows and blankets to provide additional comfort too. Try to make as much room as possible by pushing back your furniture. You should also remove anything that could get accidentally broken before the sleepover begins too.

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Create invitations

While some parents seem them as unnecessary, invitations are a fantastic idea for your child’s first slumber party. They can provide vital information which can be useful not only to your child’s guests but to their parents too. The more details you can provide beforehand, the more comfortable the parents will feel in letting their children stay over. So ask your child to help you choose a sleepover invitation design and fill it with plenty of relevant information.

You should include the date of the sleepover and what time it is going to begin. Stating a pick-up time for the following day can also be useful. Your address and contact details should be clearly stated on the invite, should the parents need to get in touch. If you are providing food at the sleepover, it can be worthwhile to mention this on the invite too. This gives parents a chance to get in touch beforehand to tell you of any food allergies their kids may have. IF you aren’t able to supply everything your child’s guests will need, politely ask them to bring it themselves. This might include sleeping bags, pajamas and pillows. Once complete, try to send the invites out as soon as possible to give everyone plenty of time to prepare.

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Set a light’s out time

Not getting any sleep is one of the main things that parents dread about their child’s slumber parties. It is likely that you, your kid and their friend won’t have an entirely restful night’s sleep. But there is something you can do to ensure everyone gets some sleep, even if it is only a few hours. Before the sleepover begins, talk to your child about an appropriate light’s out time. This is the time when you will either turn off or dim the lights which will indicate that it’s time for bed. Be realistic with this time and don’t make it too early or late.

When your kid’s friends have settled into your home, let them know when the light’s out time will be. Explain that once the lights are out, you don’t expect to hear loud music, talking or laughing. You might even want to give each of them torches to use when the lights are turned off. As it get’s closer to light’s out time, give them a quick reminder that they only have 10 minutes left with the lights on. This can be the perfect time for them to get into their pajamas and use the bathroom too.

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Be smart with snacks

Snacks can help make your kid’s first sleepover even more enjoyable. So you need to start thinking about what food and drink options you can provide. Mini-pizzas, popcorn and chips and dips are fantastic choices that most kids will gladly eat. But you can find plenty of exciting snack recipe ideas on blogs or in cookbooks if you want to create something different. Keep in mind any food allergies that your child’s friends may have and avoid any ingredients that are too spicy. The last thing you want is to be dealing with an allergic reaction or upset stomachs.

Make sure you place a table in the sleepover room before everyone arrives where you can place your snacks and drinks. Try to serve the food early, particularly if you have sugary snacks and drinks on offer. Serving these just before bedtime could leave you with a house full of kids on a sugar rush. This can make it difficult for everyone to get some sleep. Serving heavy meals too late can also result in sickness, which can also put a downer on the night. So serve light snacks early to prevent this from happening.

These survival tips and tricks will ensure your kid’s first sleepover is a resounding success. By setting some ground rules and preparing in advance, it can be a fun and stress-free night for all. Any sleepover your child host’s from now on will be a breeze in comparison.

The Clean Up: Steps To Take After The Worst Has Happened

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We don’t like to think about disaster striking our home. Apart from putting the relevant precautions in place, we tend to put it out of our minds. But if the worst does happen you will need to act quickly. So it’s useful to have some steps in place to ease the burden.

Flood

In the current eco-climate floods seem to be increasing. Householders are spending thousands each year to protect their properties and families. But if disaster strikes and your home is flooded, there are several steps you should take regarding the clean up.

Always take precautions where water is concerned, to avoid electric shock
Contact an expert for a quote on the price per square foot to fix water damage
Contact your insurance company
Remove furniture, furnishings and other clutter
Scrape up as much mud from floors, ceilings and walls as possible
Salvage as many appliances as possible and wash and dry them quickly
Dry wooden furniture outside after removing drawers
Dispose of any food exposed to water

Depending on the severity of the flood, it may be some time before you can redecorate and live in the house again. It will need to be completely dried. This process should begin as soon as possible to avoid structural damage.

Fire

A fire in your home can be terrifying and life-threatening. Once the fire is under control, and your home is deemed safe to enter again, the cleaning can begin.

Fire and smoke cause massive damage, as do fire extinguishers. Often you will find a layer of soot over your home and possessions. Remove as much of this as possible using a vacuum cleaner. Wherever possible, you should enlist the help of a professional. Soot and the chemicals required to clean are harmful, and masks may need to be worn.

Once the cleaning is complete, you may still find that you’re left with the lingering odor. Again, a professional cleaning company should be able to deal with this. Their processes and chemicals work at a deep level removing odors from burning and smoke. Sometimes they will use a fogger to penetrate surfaces and remove the smell.

If you’re looking for a household solution to lingering odors, wiping over affected surfaces with white vinegar can help. Another tip is to place bowls of baking soda in each room. The powder will absorb the odor, and you can then dispose of it.

Storm Damage

Storm damage is usually caused by falling trees or debris flying into the house. Always take care where trees or limbs are still leaning. They may still pose a threat. You should also be aware of the proximity of power cables. The house will need to be assessed for structural damage and safety issues.

Once any potential threats are removed, and the house is deemed safe, you can begin the clean up. Again, it’s likely you will need expert help to remove large trunks and branches. Some of these may need to be cut before removing.

Take steps to clear any hazardous materials such as broken glass. Get rid of any debris. Windows may need to be temporarily boarded before you can arrange for them to be fixed or replaced. This will avoid further damage caused by inclement weather.

Next remove any furniture or possessions that are beyond repair, including carpets. If items can be salvaged, then take steps to mend/clean them. Some rooms may need drying and the use of dehumidifiers and heaters. Ventilate rooms as much as possible by opening doors and windows. Remove carpets to allow floorboards to dry thoroughly.

There are steps you can take to reduce the risk of household disasters. But sometimes things happen beyond our control. Safety should always be your priority. Ensure your family know what to do in case of emergency. And once the danger has passed, act quickly to avoid further damage.

Kids Will Be Kids – Get Them A Winter Wardrobe That Survives The Season!

Before you become a parent, you hear people say things to new and relatively new mums, and you just smile and nod. Things like “they learn so fast, don’t they!” and “she looks just like you.” And if you’re not really paying attention, it just sounds like standard stuff one woman says to another. Another example is “they get so big so soon!” and it’s easy to be cynical. Just looks like another tiny human to me, mate, honest.

Of course, these are things that all new mums hear so often that they kind of just let it wash over them. But when you are a mum you learn for yourself pretty swiftly that yes, the growth rate is like something from a sci-fi movie. It seems like only yesterday, a small pot of strained carrot was a meal for your little star. Now they’re eating you out of house and home. No wonder they’re getting bigger!

When you’re an adult, the time sometimes comes that you realise clothes wear out. Those trusty jeans that survived trips to the park, DIY and more, they no longer preserve warmth nor dignity. They need to be retired. For your kids, clothes often don’t get to that point.

Hand-me-downs often become hand-me-downs not because you don’t have the money to buy new. It’s more because when you buy them, they fit. A couple of months later? That cute summer dress might work as a summer top.

But when it comes to clothes for kids, the one area where you can’t skimp is in the winter wardrobe. A warm winter coat needs to be durable, waterproof and capable of holding a child who may well be a different size by the time spring has sprung. You might get a second winter out of it, but these are clothes that need to look good and perform a function. You need to be ready to pay what it takes to get the right ones.

Make Sure They’re Age Appropriate

As a parent, your first priority is always going to be practicality. If your child were given the family credit card and let loose in a clothes shop, they’d come back with a lot of things they liked the look of. When it came to actually keeping the rain out, or staying warm, it’d be a different story. But at the same time, there needs to be a balance.

Every child remembers their first parka. Even if they don’t want to.

Even if kids don’t realise it, they’re fashion conscious. They see what their friends are wearing, and they want to wear the same. A coat your little boy loved when he was six might be “so uncool” when he turns seven. And at that age, these small details matter all the more.

Kids are very visual little beings, so it is a good idea to involve them when looking for new clothes online. On a shopping site like Little Moppets or similar, you can show them the latest lines that are available and see what they like best.

Make Sure They’re Hard Wearing

Before they become more concerned with playing with their phones and hanging out, kids do like to play fairly rough. I’m not talking about wrestling or hitting each other here (although there’s always one). But they do like to run around, pick things up and in most cases, no child has ever seen a puddle they don’t want to stamp in.

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Who are we kidding? It’s still fun when you’re 30.

Most kids – well, most people, really – would rather ask for forgiveness than seek permission. So by the time you would advise them to keep their good clothes good, it may already be too late. This is especially true for winter clothes, which may have to deal with heavy rain and snow. And where rain and snow come, mud and slush follow. Often on the coat you just spent a week’s wages on.

Make Sure They’re Easy To Wash

No matter how they’re spelt, follow washing instructions

If something is going to be worn often by a kid, then it is also going to spend a lot of time in a washing machine. Often, during the winter, it will also see some action in the tumble dryer. In a particularly cold winter, you may even want to put it through the dryer just before going out.

This means that your child’s winter clothes need to be ready for that kind of routine. It is not a good idea to buy a coat that needs to be washed on its own or one that can’t be tumble-dried. So before you buy it – certainly before you let children wear it outside – you need to check washing and drying instructions. That’s certainly something you don’t want to find out too late.

If It’s Small, Buy More Than One Of It

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Every parent with kids of a certain age has had the following exchange, on picking their child up from school or playgroup.

“Did you have fun?”

“Yes, it was great, we built a snowman!”

“Did you? That’s amazing, you lo… Where’s your scarf?”

“I lost it!”

Bear in mind that both the answers your child gives in this little conversation are delivered with the same enthusiasm. Scarves, hats and gloves on a child in winter are like fur on a cat in summer. They will be shed, lost and scattered who knows where. So be prepared to need to replace these vital items. It’s hard, though not impossible, to lose a coat or a shoe. But don’t overspend on winter clothing accessories. They can be here today and also gone today.

Winter is often where the most fun of your children’s young lives will be had. Unlike Elsa, they will want to build a snowman. They will want to kick and lie down in piles of fallen leaves (if it’s dry enough). They’ll have the best time imaginable while doing this, and trying to stop them is pointless.

Once they deem they’re too old for such childish behaviour, you’ll miss it. So let kids be kids. Make sure they’re dressed in a way that allows them to be kids. And be prepared to wonder how a garment so small can contain so much mud!

Do Home Gadgets Really Make Your Life Better? You’d Be Surprised

The tech revolution has come to your pocket in the form of your smartphone. It’s coming to your car in the shape of EVs and autonomous vehicles. But is it coming to your home? You bet it is! Nothing can stop the march of technology, not even the four walls of brick and mortar that surround you right now.

The cool thing about home gadgets that is there’s something for pretty much everybody. Things are changing fast in the home space, so you’re bound to love the latest tech. It’s all designed to make our lives more convenient, more secure and more entertaining. Here’re some of our favorite picks.

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3-Pound Printers

If you do a lot of travel, or you have a cluttered house, the last thing you want is a large printer. You want something that does everything a regular printer does but at a fraction of the size. Well, you’re in luck. Companies, like Primera, have made printers that you can pop in your suitcase or on the bookshelf. These printers don’t just print either. They scan and copy too, which is useful if you can’t get to the office. What’s more, they weigh less than 3 pounds. Dell’s smallest business-class printer weighs nearly 30 pounds. So it’s a big difference.

Arguably, the biggest benefit of these printers isn’t in the home; it’s while you’re traveling for work. Small printers can be unpacked on long plane trips, and you can get on with work as if you were in the office. Printing on the move is something business travelers have been begging for for years.

Smart Frying Pans

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If you’ve ever tried to pan fry a piece of meat at home, you know how difficult it can be. Knowing when the meat is done on the inside is next to impossible, and relies on the instincts of a seasoned chef.

Or at least it used to until the smart frying pan came along. Companies have started making frying pans with a basic level of understanding of the food that they’re cooking. Smart pans use temperature data to tell you when the piece of meat you’re cooking is ready to eat. This way, you know exactly when to dump it on the plate.

Think about how this could really help you in your own family life. It’s rare that you get to stand vigil in front of the pan for the whole time that the food is cooking. Instead, you have to attend to kids, answer the door, check your social media – whatever. Often this results in disaster. But if you’ve got a pan that alerts you via your smartphone app the moment your food is cooked, the problem goes away.

Wi-Fi Video Monitor

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If you care about home security, you’ve probably already read some DIY home security system reviews. One of the products doing the rounds at the moment is Wi-Fi video monitors. The idea here is to connect video cameras to your home’s Wi-Fi router and then watch your home through a smartphone app. As long as your router is on and your phone is connected to the internet, you can watch what happens in your house.

Wi-Fi video monitors are great for two types of people. They’re great for people who worry about their pets being left in the house without them all day. And they’re also great for people who tend to travel a lot and want to keep a beady eye on their property.

The best systems are those that come with wall plugs where you don’t have to worry about batteries.

Emergency LED Flashlights

Ten to fifteen years ago, unless you were a tech enthusiast, you hadn’t heard of LEDs. The top of the range torch, used by boy scouts, was the incandescent bulb Maglite. And it was huge.

Fast forward to the present and LEDs are invading our homes in new and exciting ways. Take the Satechi LightMate, for instance. This is a LED flashlight that is brighter than the previous generation of torches but in a much smaller package. These torches can also often be used to charge your phone since their battery packs are so large.

For people who live in areas with lots of power outages, LED torches are a godsend. Because LEDs use so much less energy than regular flashlights, the batteries last a long time. And because the batterings are large, they can be used to charge you other gadgets in the event of a prolonged power cut.

Needless to say, these types of torches are also suitable for people who spend a lot of time camping and going away on weekend breaks.

Smart Hand Luggage

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Clever startups are now looking for ways to get smart tech into the luggage industry. One player, called Bluesmart, has succeeded to some extent. The idea here is to connect luggage to the smartphone. People who use smart luggage can lock and unlock their suitcases through their smartphone apps. And they can also use the integrated GPS readers to precisely locate where their suitcase is. You can imagine just how useful GPS tech in luggage would be if your bags just happened to get send on to another airport. In a word: smart hand luggage is a godsend.

Smart hand luggage is for people, again, who do a lot of traveling. It’s also for those who get easily stressed while waiting for their baggage to appear on the conveyor belt.

Systems That Prevent Break In

There is a whole raft of companies who have systems that allow you to monitor your home in real time. These are marketed as security devices. And while they do help you keep an eye on what’s going on in your home, they don’t prevent criminal activity.

But now there’s a breed of security system that goes beyond just passively recording an intruder’s actions. These systems actively work to prevent crimes and scare criminals away. Currently, many of the world’s top security systems connect directly to the police. But new sensor technology is making it possible to scare burglars off before they enter your home. For instance, MyFox comes with a system that allows homeowners to track when their windows and doors have been opened.

If you’ve got the money, these systems are an excellent investment. According to the data, 80 percent of intruders will give up if they hear the alarm go off. That’s a seriously good deterrent from a home security system.

TV Sticks

It’s amazing how many channels there are but how little stuff there is to watch. If you’re one of those people who always flicks through channels, consider getting a TV stick. These TV sticks, like the Amazon Firestick, connect to your Wi-Fi. Then they present a bunch of on-demand programming designed to meet your particular tastes. You can choose from films, soaps, game shows, and drama series.

If you’re a person who is disillusioned by the quality of programming on the TV, this is the product for you. TV sticks are also a great product for people who spend a lot of time traveling. You can use these devices in hotel rooms, so long as the hotel has Wi-Fi. You can also take it to other people’s homes if you all want to watch something in particular together.

Couch Keyboard And Mouse

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One of the big downsides of PC gaming is that you have to sit on a PC chair in front of your desk. It’s not exactly comfortable. You could move into the living room and game on your Playstation. But then you’d have to give up your keyboard and mouse and use a clunky controller. It’s a nightmare.

Well, it was a nightmare. Now companies are building ergonomic keyboards and mice designed to be used on your lap. Gaming giant Razer has made it’s own. Essentially it’s an RGB keyboard, with an extended area to act as a mousepad.

If you’re a fan of Steam, this is a great device to have in your living room. Until now, Steam Machine users had to make do with Steam controllers. They found it difficult to compete with other players in games like CS: GO. But with couch keyboards and mice, keeping pace has never been easier. It hardly feels as if they have left the PC behind.

The Smartmat

It seems that today, everything is going smart, even the very floor on which we walk. Smartmats are no joke. They contain thousands of tiny sensors. And these sensors are designed to tell you whether you’re doing your exercises correctly. If you’re a big yoga fan, this is definitely the gadget for you. These mats connect to an app on your phone via Bluetooth. The app then keeps track of your position, weight, and other metrics. If you’re not doing moves correctly, the software is intelligent enough to be able to tell you.

For busy people. The smartmat is a great substitute for having to go out to yoga classes at the local gym. You can simply lay out the mat, and get expert coaching in the privacy of your own home.

Keep Up With A Newborn and Keep Fit

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Being a new Mom is incredibly hard. There is no denying that. After 9 months of playing house to a living, breathing and kicking little-person, your body can feel alien after the birth. It takes a long while for everything to deflate a little and although you might just want to bounce back into shape, finding time could be a challenge. You may not want even to think about a workout regime for months, but if you do, there are some great resources available to you to make it work.

Plan your workouts

Home workouts are going to be a blessing during this time. If you have a kettlebell or a skipping rope then squeezing in a gentle workout during nap time is going to be much more worthwhile. An excellent way to maximize your results when you only have a short amount of time is to know exactly what you’re going to do; even if you don’t know when! If you haven’t worked out your legs in a while, then schedule that to be your next routine. Be kind to yourself and take it gently.

Wear your athleisure gear

One of the best and easiest ways to feel motivated for a workout is to change into the correct outfit. It sounds strange, but it really works. When you get changed in the morning, put on your yoga pants and a comfortable sports bra. You’ll feel ready for anything and if you do get the chance to workout that day – you’ll be more than ready!

Know when it’s time to relax

This is crucial. You may want to get back into your size 10 jeans for that wedding you have to go to, but too much pressure will stress you out and be bad for the baby. There are so many lovely blogs online that you can browse when the baby is asleep, thebabytrend.com has some great articles that will amuse you. It’s important during this period that as well as keeping your body fit and healthy, you are also mindful and calm.

Don’t be too hard on yourself – you have a newborn!

If you don’t get to exercise and pump the iron for a few days, well, that’s absolutely fine. You have plenty of time to settle into a gym routine, and it’s important that you stay chilled about it all. If you’re lucky enough to have a partner or a friend who can watch the little one for 30 minutes while you go for a run; that’s great! But if you don’t, don’t panic. Everything good will come in good time.

Try something brand new

If you have never tried yoga or Pilates before, now is the time. Some people worry that they’ll hate it because it’s not ‘proper’ exercise. But trust me, it’s not easy! You’ll be stretching out your body like never before and it’ll do wonders for your back. Give it a go; you might never look back.

How You Can Encourage A Healthy And Active Life For Your Children

We hear about it all the time these days. Obesity is becoming a huge problem and more so in younger children. This is because younger children are developing bad habits when it comes to their diets and activity levels. That, and the advanced technology that has become at their disposal. More and more children are spending less time outside and more time glued to the television and computer games. Team that with an unhealthy diet of junk food and chocolate and they are on a one way journey to bad health in the future. However, it doesn’t have to be that way.

It is so important to teach children about good healthy choices from a young age. Be that not giving them the option of unhealthy things or just encouraging them in different ways. The power lies with us, the parents. So I thought I would share with you a few ways that you can encourage a healthy and active life in young children and beyond. Hopefully establishing good habits for the future.

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Healthy diets

Your diet is one of the leading things that can cause you to become overweight. If you, or your children, are gorging on junk food each day. Not getting a good intake of fruit and vegetables, then you aren’t doing yourself any favours.

Weaning

One of the first ways we introduce young children to food is through weaning. At the time, your child doesn’t know that they dislike anything green. They are curious to the new textures and tastes that they are about to experience. But, many parents don’t take advantage of this. The thing is, a child has to try something at least eight times before they can make a conscious decision of whether they like something. Especially at this age. If they spit it out once many parents assume they don’t like it and never offer again. But the chances are the next time they will eat it. The issue is we set a lot of the habits from this age. Thankfully with the introduction of methods like baby led weaning, it’s easier to help our children experience new foods.

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Eating as a family

Another great way to encourage good eating habits from a young age is to eat as a family. Serving up one meal helps diminish any risk of fussy eating in the future. It enables you to lead by example. Most children will try something new or eat their meal if they are surrounded by others doing the same thing. Plus it is a great opportunity to spend some quality time together bonding. Eating a meal as a family is something families don’t do enough of. But it’s a great time to reconnect with one another.

Try and not make a drama out of food or meal times

Finally, when it comes to food and trying new things try and not make a drama out of mealtimes. Easier said than done when your young child is refusing to eat a lovingly prepared meal. Just accept that there will be good days of eating and bad days. But being consistent with healthy options is key for good habits to be developed in the future.

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Getting active

Being active is another thing young children today don’t do. Smartphones and games consoles are far more appealing. Too many times you will hear about children residing in their bedrooms playing video games non stop. While technology is great and it’s important to encourage healthy use of it, it is also vital to ensure that children remain active. This means getting outdoors and burning off energy the old fashioned way.

Have active family days out

Again sometimes the best offence is to do things as a family. So enjoy active days out by going on a hike, heading for a walk in the local woods, or just playing with a ball at the local park. Sometimes the chance of spending quality time together is enough to entice a child from their beloved tablet. To do something fun and active for a change. On the more serious side a good level of fitness is vital for good health in the future.

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Encourage extracurricular activities

Another great way to encourage a more active lifestyle is to enrol your children in some after school clubs. Or extracurricular activities on the weekend. You will find that there is literally a class for anything, so you are bound to find something your child will take an interest in. From gymnastics for preschoolers to soccer and baseball practice there is something for everyone. Many times your school will offer such clubs. But researching online will often unearth some great local clubs. It’s also another fantastic opportunity for your children to socialise with other children. Allowing them to make some friends outside of the school environment.

Listen to what your child is interested in

Finally, it might be hard to stray away from the dream you have for your child but you need to ensure you listen to them. You may want them to be the next tennis star or football hero, but they may have other ideas. The last thing you want to do is force a more active lifestyle on your child. This could cause rebellion in the future. So make sure you listen to the things they will like to try and ensure you encourage that wholeheartedly.

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Drinking plenty of water

The last thing to consider is the amount of water your child drinks. We can be too easily strayed towards cordial drinks or sugary alternatives, but in the long term these are no good for young children.

Avoid sugary drinks

Try and ensure you stay away from the sugary drinks alternative or diluting water with flavours. This develops a taste to your child that will be difficult to break away from as they get older. Especially as most schools offer just milk and water as drink options now.

Added benefits

There are some great added benefits to drinking water. Not only could it improve the mood of your child but it could also help them sleep at night and increase their energy levels. In a good way. Water is a great detox, even for children, so try and encourage a decent water intake from an early age.

I hope these tips help you encourage a healthy and active lifestyle for your children.

How To Get The Best Night’s Sleep Ever!

If you’re a mom, a good night’s sleep may be a distant memory. Has it been weeks or even months since you enjoyed an undisturbed night? Do you feel tired every day? If so, these handy hints may help. Hopefully, taking these tips on board will enable you to enjoy the best night’s sleep ever!

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Working out routines

When you’re a parent, you tend to focus your attention on getting your child into a routine. But it’s actually incredibly beneficial to adopt a regime yourself. Your body has an internal clock. If you get into a routine of going to bed and getting up at the same time each day, your body adapts to these timings. This means that you shouldn’t struggle to get to sleep when you get into bed. It may also make you feel more refreshed in the mornings. Once you’ve got your children into a routine in the evenings, take steps to establish your own. Give yourself a couple of hours each night to relax once the kids are in bed, and then get your head down. It may take a few days to get used to a new sleep pattern, but you’ll soon reap the rewards.

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Enjoying you time

When you’re a mom, your main priority is your kids. However, it’s essential to have some time to yourself as well. Everyone needs a little time for rest and relaxation, especially if you’ve been up in the night or tearing around after a toddler. Schedule some time out once the kids are in bed or arrange an outing during the day. You could ask your parents or a sibling to babysit while you have an indulgent facial or catch up with friends over lunch, for example. It’s important to have a break from mommy duties now and again.

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Getting into the outdoors

If you’ve not been out for a few days, you can get cabin fever. It’s beneficial for both your mind and body to get out and about and enjoy some fresh air. Take the kids to the park to let off steam or go for a walk or a bike ride. Being in the outdoors can help you to clear your mind, and it’s nice to have a change of scenery. Alternatively, if you can get a sitter, take the opportunity to go for a walk or a jog. Exercise helps to reduce stress and anxiety, and it can also help you to sleep at night.

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Creating a beautiful bedroom

Many of us look forward to the moment we can turn off the lights and climb into bed each night. If your bedroom is a peaceful, tranquil retreat, you’re more likely to sleep well. If your room is a mess or you have light streaming through the window, this can make it difficult to sleep. Try and take steps to turn your room into a haven. Go for soothing colors for the walls and de-clutter. Hang blackout blinds or thick curtains, and make sure your bed is supportive and comfortable. If your mattress is on its last legs, research memory foam mattress toppers. Mattress toppers can prolong the life of your mattress and make your bed more comfortable. Light some candles, put some calming music on and scatter throws and cushions to create a cozy vibe. Try and avoid taking phones or laptops to bed with you.

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Getting things off your chest

Do you struggle to get to sleep because your mind is racing and you can’t seem to shut off? If so, make sure you get things off your chest before you go to bed. If you’re thinking about things or worrying, you won’t be able to get to sleep. It may help you to call a friend for a chat or speak to your partner.

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Running a bath

Before you hit the hay, run a hot bath and enjoy half an hour to yourself. Close the door, turn the taps on and play some music. Being in the water will make you feel more relaxed, and it will also prepare your body for sleep. When you get out of the bath, the temperature drop mimics the change in temperature from day to night. This encourages your body to wind down, so you should find it easier to nod off.

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If you’re a parent, you may dream of a peaceful night where you can sleep through without any interruptions. It may be impossible for the first few months after you’ve had a baby. But the end is in sight. If you have older kids, follow these steps. Hopefully, you’ll be enjoying blissful nights in no time.

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