Although this is not my first rodeo, I am still very nervous and scared to give birth again.  It’s not an easy thing to do, let me tell you.  It takes a lot of strength, courage, and pain to bring a child into this world.  Such a beautiful reward, but I’m still a little nervous now that there are only 8 weeks left!

Yikes!

This pregnancy went by so fast, I guess because I am so busy with the other two it went quicker.  The discomforts are now kicking in; I’m becoming more restless as each day passes, and very irritable in this last trimester.  Heartburn is not my friend and I feel very anxious.  So now the countdown begins on giving birth for the third time.  My fear and worry have been taking over these last few weeks, so I needed to focus on the positive things of bringing my new son into the world.  Here are a few things I am doing to pass the time until his arrival.

 

Start a baby book: I started my baby book at about 14 weeks.  I continue to add little things, photos, stickers, and little notes to my baby boy.  Both of my kids have baby books, and I always do my best to keep them updated and full of fun facts of their lives. 

            Giving birth is inevitable when you’re pregnant, but you can still enjoy the process without getting too nervous. 

Get your birth plan: I had a birth plan with both of my kids.  Which unfortunately did not work the way I wanted, well I guess it happened the way it was supposed to.  You plan for the day and go with the flow when you need to.  I have learned that the doctors are going to do what needs to be done to get the baby and you out of delivery safely.  I downloaded some templates from whattoexpect.com they are very helpful tools.  Make sure to go over all the details with your doctor so you both are on the same page. 

I also made little goodie bags for my nurses when I was pregnant with my son.  I made sure they knew I was appreciative of all their hard work and dedication to me and my baby on those day/days.  I didn’t make them when I had my daughter.  She came two and a half weeks early, so it seems I ran out of time.  I am planning on doing that again.  The nursing staff is so important during your time at the hospital.  You can find some great ideas on Pinterest.com. 

 

Planning your baby shower:  Some people will tell you it’s not “proper” etiquette to have a baby shower after the first baby, well I think that is NUTS! It’s not just about getting gifts; it’s about celebrating a life with the people you love most.  It’s about creating memories for your new baby’s life.  So don’t listen to anyone, go register at your favorite baby store and plan your special day.  People will be excited regardless if it’s the first or last if you are excited about it. 

            With my daughter people told me not to have the shower for her, I did it because I was happy to have been blessed with another baby and wanted to share my joy and love with my family and friends.  I have decided to make this shower smaller and more intimate; however it’s still a celebration to me!

Make your hospital check list: Start getting your things ready for the big day.  I packed a bag with a few simple things, and of course you can add on as the time draws near.  Make sure your husband is ready for the big day with his goodie bag as well. 

            Since I have two other kids, I am starting to plan who and where I will leave them once I go into labor.  Talking to family and discussing your options is so important, you want you and your kids to feel as comfortable as possible.  If your sitter can come to your house, even better! The kids are more content in their own environment. 

            The pain we endure during labor is awful! Each of my experiences was very different.  My fear has been taking over my joy, and I needed to regroup and remind myself that the pain lasts only a minute and blessings a lifetime.  I am so thrilled and looking forward to our new addition. 

            Thanks for stopping by mommies, remember to keep sharing my blog and sending your suggestions and feedback so that together we can strive for mommy success! 

 

XOXO,

REINA