Career commitments can often mean upheaval for your family. Perhaps one of the biggest upheavals is finding out your office is relocating. Making a big move across the country for work isn’t for the faint-hearted. And when children are involved, it can be even more strenuous. So how do you tackle a major move for you and your family?
Start by getting them involved. This will help make the experience a positive one. Take a weekend to visit your new hometown. Perhaps you can check out the property you’re thinking of moving to. Letting the kids see the reality of the situation helps to prevent them letting their imaginations take over. Show them there is nothing to fear. Instead, there is plenty to get excited about.
You can check out the local play parks and even sample the local restaurants in the area. Do a little research to find out what attractions are nearby for your children to enjoy. They may even want to check out the schools. Of course, they will need to say goodbye to friends when they move. Help them to find some appropriate ways to stay in touch.
Packing is a huge job to undertake when you have a family. Start with getting rid of all the clutter. Don’t bring things with you that you’re not likely to need. Next, begin packing up the things you’re not likely to need in the next week or so. You should pack an overnight bag for each of you for your last night in the old house. It keeps everything together for the first night in your new house too. Finally, pack one box with a cup each, a plate each, and all the things for a meal or two.
When you’re checking out moving companies, be sure to pick one that is willing to travel all the way to your new place. You’ll also want to check they are professional. When you have a family, it’s best to leave all the heavy lifting to your removal experts. It also means you can focus on the needs of the children rather than being busy with boxes. If you are moving a substantial distance, your belongings may not arrive until the day after you do.
The first night in a new house can be a scary prospect for the kids. This is especially true if the place is empty at first. Why not all stay in a hotel together? That way you won’t need to worry about making beds or cooking. You’re guaranteed the hot water and power will be on. It may also buy you some time to set up the children’s rooms before they see them. Of course, part of the fun of moving may be for them to do that themselves!
Moving house is a big undertaking. But getting some professional movers, and taking your time to prepare can help. Let the kids make some choices about their new rooms. And help them find the best things about your new town. Enjoy your new home.